The Timeless Topic of Sex Drive Hey there, sexy people! Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s as old as time but still manages to ruffle some feathers. As for the remaining two concerns, the first concerns sexual desire, laughter being used to ease tension which would otherwise be uncomfortable. I mean that urge you get where it feels like you can hardly contain yourself and wanting to just have sex with your partner.
The Age-Old Question About Sexual desire
That is why the team that wants it more will win the game, no matter which team that may be. We’ve all heard it before: An adage goes, ‘’Men are always ready to go while women need to be persuaded’’. However, let me argue whether this statement is true or not. So, let’s look deeper into it and try to figure out what is actually happening out of the sight of prying eyes.
Biology
It’s Not Just Hormonal, Darling Of course, testosterone has a role in stimulating libido, and men in general have higher levels of this hormone. But ladies, you should not understand the above statements to mean that you have no potential! Your mind, body, and soul are embarking on a journey while estrogen and progesterone perform their own erotic waltz. Think of it like this: If hormones were a party, testosterone would be that friend who is always calling for shots. Estrogen and progesterone? They normally begin a party as quiet but find themselves in front of
the conga line before the mid of the night.
Your Brain: The Real Sex Organ
Here’s a fun fact: In fact, your brain is probably your largest sex organ, but it’s one that is often ignored in matters of sex. This is where most of the action takes place, and for want of a better term, we can refer to the hypothalamus as the brain’s boudoir. And guess what? In cultivating relationships, this seems to operate relatively in the same way for men as it does for women.
Genes: The Libido Lottery
A few lucky people are blessed with a high sexual desire which they are born with. Some may feel the urge early enough while others will require some encouragement every once in a while to venture into such risks. One can wake up with a sports car engine while the other wakes up with a family sedan engine – they’ll both take you to church, but not at the same pace, though. You might laugh when I tell you that it’s all in your head (And that’s alright!).
Society Says What?
Okay, people, let’s not beat around the bush – we all have some issues with regards to sex. Society has been an expert in telling us how we should feel about our sexual desire for much longer than we care to remember. Society expects men to be sex maniacs, while it expects women to be cold.
Aroused or Not Aroused: The Influence of Mood
This would go along with the understanding that more often than not your mood is the primary player in the game that is desire. Stress, you could say, is libido’s cold shower – nothing induces it to shrink quite as effectively as boiling wool. And I haven’t even begun talking about anxiety and depression. We all know them, they’re the kings or queens of destroying the mood.
Relationship Status: It’s Complicated
If you have a new partner in your life, do you ever find that you’re as giddy as you were when you were young? Oh, you are sparkling; come back to me when you finish your honeymoon. However true love can be even steamier in the long-run. The secret? Friendship, trust, and probably the sense of adventure.
Myth-Busting Time
Let’s tackle some common misconceptions:
➤Myth: Boys however contemplate over sex every 7 seconds only.
➤Reality: If this were true, guys wouldn’t have time to do anything else, such as eating, sleeping or even watching their favorite TV series for hours!
➤Myth: They say low libido equals one thing: you are no longer in love.
➤Reality: Nope! Desire is not steady because various factors influence it. The fact is, it doesn’t mean that the love has disappeared.
Spice It Up: Strategies On How to Reclaim Your Flow
➤Get Moving: I of course know that exercise isn’t only for your abs. It exercises the circulatory system throughout the body and in unmentionable regions too.
➤Eat Sexy: Forget oysters. Dark chocolate, strawberries and a glass of wine can definitely do the job well.
➤Talk Dirty: And by dirty, I mean something which is really frank and crisp with your partner. That’s the sexiest thing you could ever do!
➤Stress Less: That’s the idea, isn’t it? Or more commonly used in this context: easier said than done indeed! But seriously, have a yoga, meditation or whatever activity that will make you relax a bit.
➤Play Doctor: The situation where you get too desperate, perhaps shouldn’t be ashamed to seek the help of a specialist. Do not underestimate them, sweetheart, they’ve heard it all.
Final Say About Sex Drive
Embrace Your Unique Desire So we have come to the end of the conclusion. And as it has been said already, sexual desire is as individual as you are. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Sometimes it may be daily, other time it may be monthly, but what’s important is to have happiness and good health. Also, do not think of the quantity, but the quality is all that matters in terms of the sexual relations. Therefore bridge the gap and go out there to explore, to communicate and to have fun! Stay sexy, my friends.
